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2025/09

Giving Love and Receiving No Pain
给予爱而不受痛苦

Inspirational Message received by Seema M. Dewan, February 3, 2012
希玛德婉于2012年2月3日获得的心灵启示

Criticism is an expression of silent inner aggression.
批评是一种沉默的、内在的攻击性表达。

You can only fear criticism when you have a desire for recognition and praise.
只有当你渴望得到认可和赞扬时，你才会害怕批评。

Those that criticize you do so only because they have feared
the glimpse of strength that they have seen within you.
那些批评你的人，之所以如此，只因为他们害怕在你之内所看到的那份力量。

Always keep within a positive state of being....... Place the trust in your heart......
There is no one that can dare to pose negativity before you then.
始终保持积极的心态..... 把信任置于你心中.....
届时，再也没有人敢在你面前展示负面情绪了。

You are always in the constant observation of others......
And you must always be in the constant observation of your true Self.
你始终处于他人的持续观察之中..... 而你必须始终处于对你的真我的持续观察之中。

You feel pain when others criticize you because you begin to believe in their observation of you.
当他人批评你的时候，你感到痛苦，因为你开始相信他们对你的观察。

Know that no one can know you other than yourself...... believe in that...... stand by it........
and keep your peace.
要知道除了你自己，没有人能了解你..... 要相信这一点..... 信守着它.....
并保持你的内心平静。

Yes! Sometimes those that are closest to you shall criticize you......
They shall misunderstand your love for them...... But that is no time for you to cry and seek self pity!
That is the time you have to be clear in your thoughts........
That is the time you have to be far from the waves of emotion......
That is the time you have to dive deep into your heart and say boldly,
"I love you.... and I shall not stain it with your fears and misunderstanding.......
I am there for you now...... I was there for you then."
是的！有时你最亲近的人也会批评你.....
他们会误解你给他们的爱..... 然而，这不是你哭泣或自怜自艾的时候！
这是你必须保持头脑清醒的时候.....
这是你必须远离情感波涛的时候.....
这是你必须潜入你内心的时候，勇敢地说出，
“我爱你.... 而我不会让你的恐惧和误解沾污这份爱.....
我现在为了你而在那..... 我当时也为了你而在那。”

Think of God endlessly...... Praise Him for His love and kindness......
Thank Him for His unconditional friendship toward you....... Recognize Him as your strength........
Cherish His Hand that holds yours........ Realize all that comes to you as His grace........
Be fearless in His love...... Be confident in your faith...... That is all that you need.......
That is the pillar you shall lean on to handle the fears of your own mind and to face the fears of others.
不断地思念着神..... 因祂给你的爱和仁慈而赞美祂.....
因祂给你的无条件友谊而感谢祂..... 体认祂就是你的力量.....
珍惜祂那紧握着你手的手..... 了悟来到你身上的一切都是祂的恩典.....
在祂的爱之中无所畏惧..... 对你的信念要充满自信..... 这就是你所需要的一切.....
这是你将依靠的支柱，用来应付你自己心念的恐惧，以及面对他人的恐惧。

There is no friend...... there is no enemy......
You create both with the desires you foster and the fears you sustain.
The positive and the negative are both the reflections of what you think.... you understand......
you feel...... you experience as mind and body.......
Both the friend and the enemy shall vanish when the mind shall perish and the heart shall rule!
没有朋友..... 没有敌人.....
你以你培养的欲望及你维系的恐惧创造了两者。
正面的和负面的两者都是你身心所思想的..... 所理解的.....
所感受的..... 所体验的反映....
朋友与敌人这两者都会消逝，当心念平息而心灵起而主宰之际！

You must do all that you do with a pure attitude.......
If your heart is clean, no one else's misunderstanding of you shall bother you.......
You are bothered by criticism only because somewhere deep within there is a slight truth to it.......
But if your love has been true, then at that moment when you are being criticized,
it will continue to remain true.........
Not only will you not be touched by the negativity, you shall with your pure love turn his misunderstanding
to a realization of God's strength that is within you...... and also within him!
你要以纯净的态度去做你所做的一切.....
如果你的心是纯净的，别人的误解不会困扰你.....
你之所以被批评困扰，只因为你内心深处对批评有几分认同.....
但若你的爱是真挚的，那么在你被批评的那一刻，它会继续保持真挚.....
你不仅不会受到负面情绪的影响，你会以你的纯爱把他的误解转化为
对你之内..... 以及对他之内的神的力量的觉悟！